Greetings from Ukraine,
We pray that God’s rich blessings are being showered on each of you as they
have been on us this past month. When I wrote last I thought we had seen our
busiest and craziest month come and go, but this is Ukraine and we are always
amazed at each adventure that awaits us!! The business slowed a bit but the
craziness did not!!
We had our last full three week term and one week seminar in May. Jay Don
was thrilled to have Tim Burrow, Denny Sneed and Wayne White here to help him
teach and though Jay Don taught the whole month he had plenty of time to run
the school and visit some of the orphanages we work with. I stayed busy having
various ones over for breakfast or dinners.
Saturday, May 22nd we were blessed to partake in our third
graduation at UBI. It was an awesome time and we saw fourteen more wonderful
Christian men and women graduate with two years of very difficult Biblical
training behind them and now "stored away" in their brain.! Our theme this
year was, "Serve with Christ’s Love". Each of the speakers drew upon the theme
to challenge each graduate (and all of us) to go and serve with Christ’s love
continually. The ceremony started at 10:30 AM and ended after two, with a
light lunch be provided. The ceremony was very touching. A time again, when
the Ukrainian students thank you, by name, for leaving your country and your
family to come and teach them God’s Word---- a very humbling experience.
Jay Don and I had spent over eleven hours at the school on Friday doing all
the decorating. We used burgundy and gold for the colors with many flowers and
candles everywhere. It is a lot of work but worth it when you hear over and
over again how thrilled our students and their families and friends are to see
something so pretty. Beauty, decorated beauty, has NOT been a luxury many of
them have gotten to enjoy.
As soon as graduation was over, we had to hurriedly take things down, throw
it all in Jay Don’s office and rush home to pack for a weeks trip to Warsaw,
Poland. We made the decision, at the last moment, to go with Rhett and Julia
for her visa interview. They had asked us to go several times but we thought
we might be interfering. We told them they could enjoy the time together by
themselves. They kept saying "Visa interviews" are not a time of enjoyment and
we could go along to support them so we did.
This is where the craziness begins!! Two days on a train is a killer to
start with but in Ukraine, it’s a nightmare! The first train was the 12 hour
train to Kiev. You board the train at 6:40 in the evening so except for a few
hours it is mostly night time. We arrived in Kiev at 7 the next morning, got a
taxi and went straight to the Arizona, a restaurant where you can get an
"American" breakfast with REAL coffee, not instant! We stayed here a long
time, each taking turns to clean up and "prepare" for the next 20 hour train
ride. Our train for Warsaw left at 2:00 PM. Julia had gotten us separate
compartments on the Polish car! We were all hoping they would be nicer than
the Ukrainian cars. They were cleaner but much smaller and there was no table
in them. We shuffled suit cases and made our own table as and played 42 until
the guys got sick of losing!!! We didn’t buy any food for this train as we
thought any train ride of 20 hours would have a dining
car.........WRONG........NO dining car. All we had in our back pack was chips,
cheese, and candy. It was terrible. Finally we just tried to go to sleep.
About 1:00AM we were awakened by customs police wanting to see our passports.
After, they left, the train pulled into this huge warehouse type thing where
they CHANGED THE WHEELS ON THE TRAIN!!!!!!! I am NOT kidding. Seems as Russian
and other Soviet countries have a different size track from the rest of Europe
and the wheels have to be changed when the train enters Western Europe. Well,
now this was a sight to behold! First, Rhett and Julia got kicked out of their
compartment because they had to unscrew a thing the their floor where there
was a big hole and they worked from that hole!! Good thing they knew us and
could come into our compartment for a couple of hours. They literally lifted
the train and changed all the wheels, by hand. It truly was a sight to behold.
When they finished we tried to go back to sleep but it was hopeless. Upon
arrival to Warsaw, we got a taxi and headed for our apartment. The four of us
had rented an apartment because they are way cheaper than a hotel. We finally
got there, lugging everything up 3 flights of long stairs. The man told us
about everything, we paid him and he left. In just a couple of minutes he came
right back and said he had better check the water. Well, you guessed it NO
WATER!!! Seems as though they clean the water pipes in Poland also!!! We all
could not believe it. The man had to find us another apartment, lug all the
stuff down and go to another place but this one was just up 2 flights of
stairs. It was being cleaned and as soon as she left we all hit the showers.
Two full days with no shower, make- up etc. VERY YUCKY!!!! We all felt like
new after getting cleaned up. We spent the rest of day working on getting
Rhett's visa extended at the Ukrainian Embassy. This was a "grand" experience.
The first thing the man told Julia was that Rhett’s documents were all wrong.
These are the very documents we use to invite all visiting Americans. Well,
they weren’t good enough for him so Julia ask him if she could invite Rhett,
herself to Ukraine for three months. He said of course. Now, here is a Russian
inviting an American to Ukraine but we just all prayed he would not look at
HER passport. He didn’t. He was just interested in the extra money. After they
filled in all the forms he told them to pay but NO, not here at the Embassy,
of course not, that is too simple. We must walk forever to find the Marriott
Hotel and pay there. We finally found the Marriott and were told this was not
the place but a bank around the corner. We went there, but no this was not the
place. After four times of being told to go different places we finally found
a place that would take the money. Back to the Embassy to get the stamp in the
passport and Rhett is now legal in Ukraine for three more months. (The hardest
way they can make you do something is the way they do it here but showers of
blessings, WE GOT THE VISA!
After that was accomplished we decided to go to a classical concert that
evening. Warsaw is where Chopin was from so we "thought" we were going to a
concert of Chopin. However when we got there the program said it was a
baritone, a pianist, a trumpet player and a bass player. Well, we thought that
would be ok BUT when the baritone came out and started to sing I just couldn't
believe it. He was from Korea. He had a beautiful voice but he sang every song
in English and couldn't pronounce his R's. His English was so bad you couldn't
understand hardly any words. Well, we listened and watched for about 3 songs
and then I just lost it. I started laughing and couldn't stop. I was trying to
be quiet and the whole row was just shaking. Well, that started Rhett and
Julia (laughing to themselves) and I literally thought I was going to explode
before the intermission, dying laughing on the inside but having to hold it
in. Tears were just running down my cheeks and I was coughing and trying to
think of anything sad as to quit laughing but I could not. When we had the
intermission break we got out of there as fast as we could and we all 4
laughed for over 2 hours. Thank goodness the "concert" was free!!!
The whole next day was spent in the American Embassy waiting for Julia to
get her time to turn in her papers and then the interview. What a process. At
least they did have seats for you and you didn't have to stand the whole time.
We were there at 8AM and did not leave with the visa until around 4PM, with
one break for lunch. They had "one close call" as the lady who took her paper
work "LOST" one of
the forms from her desk to the desk of the interviewer, a
few yards away!!! This reeks of corruption as Julia would have had to come
back, possibly pay again and have another interview. Thankfully from past
experiences she had all of her papers in doubles and a third copy ready to be
faxed, if needed from Donetsk. When she produced the forms they "LOST" the man
just said, "My that was a close call!" After about 20 minutes of
"interrogation" he basically told her she had the visa but to come back after
3 and pick it up. Rhett was ready to celebrate but the 3 of us were very
cautious as she did NOT have the stupid visa in her hand. Anyway later in the
day she did get it in her hands so we all wanted to celebrate then!!! We found
a beautiful Italian restaurant and had a lovely meal there. Showers of
blessings. WE GOT THE VISA! They are now on cloud 9. They just can't believe
they will be leaving and she can actually live in the US.
The next day we left EARLY and caught a train to go see Krakow, a famous
Polish city, one of a few that was not bombed out in WW II. The train was
Polish, very nice and HAD a dining car for just a 2 hour trip!!!! We had a
very nice day there and saw lots of neat things. It was very much like Prague
with the quaint buildings, the cobble stone streets and the big open squares
with outdoor cafes all around. Flowers were everywhere, it was so pretty. Jay
Don even treated us all to a lovely horse drawn carriage ride. We all were
ready for a day of R&R!!! We took the last train back to Warsaw and were beat.
The next day was time to pack up and head back home. Our train didn't leave
until the evening but we had to be out of our apartment by 11. We stored our
luggage at the train station and took a tour of the Warsaw Castle. It was
beautiful. We had a lovely lunch of Polish food and then later ordered KFC and
Pizza Hut (they have these in Warsaw) to go, because the long Ukrainian train
ride has no dining car. (back to junk food!!!)
Oh, the night mare of the train they put us on this time. It was a true
Ukrainian one. It was a real OLD one and so dirty and small. They had the
windows sealed and there was NO way to open them. It was ok for the night but
it got very cold. We had our coats and blankets and I actually slept in my
coat, gloves and the blanket. The weather had been very cold and rainy the
whole time we were gone, like in the 50's. Well, during this night we were
awakened at 1am and 3:30am for customs for Poland and then Ukraine. Poland was
no problem but the Ukraine people were so rude. We were very sleepy and they
were shouting at us to get the forms filled in quickly. Jay Don only had one
pen and then he was going to fill mine in. The guard got very agitated and
asked Julia why I wasn't filling in mine. She told him I wore contacts and had
them out and couldn't see very well without them!!!! (She's a nut!) He then
yanked the form and pen away from Jay Don and went and filled them in himself,
even to the point of signing his name on my form!!!! Hope I am allowed to
leave the country in July!!!!
We finally got back to sleep and slept in as long as we could. When we got
up we played 42 but it began to get too hot and absolutely NO air. We were all
getting very cranky and miserable. We asked the conductor to please open the
windows but he said he couldn't so we melted all day until arriving at Kiev.
The train station at Kiev was a zoo. Julia had not bought return tickets to
Donetsk as we were not for sure when we would be leaving Poland and they
wouldn't sell us Ukraine tickets in Poland. (Figure that out) Well, she
immediately tried to get us tickets and you guessed it, there were NONE. It
was a holiday weekend in Kiev!!! She and Jay Don then went to a place and
tried to buy airline tickets but no tickets there either. No tickets that day
or the next day. After a couple of hours of hassle we finally called a taxi
company and found a van that would drive us to Kiev for $300.00!!!! We took
it. The drive is suppose to be 8 hours. 11 hours later we finally got to
Donetsk!!! (We left at 8:00pm and arrived at 7:00 am) We were just dead. The
stupid taxi driver got lost several times and drove around in one city for 2
hours looking for the right road. Jay Don finally got Julia to tell him we
weren't going to pay him the full amount if he didn't stop and ask for help.
He finally did. We were all unhappy campers after that ride. Much of the time
was on roads worse than our back alleys. So bumpy and bouncy it nearly made
you sick and we had to pay $300.00 for this!!!
We drug our stuff up the 84 steps, took a shower and fell in bed until
noon!!!!! Traveling in Eastern Europe is sheer craziness!!
During the past month we have been able to go back to the "Street Kids"
orphanage where we delivered a lot of toys, sports equipment and Summer
sandals. We also went back to the Children’s Hospital and presented then with
an EKG machine. They were in disparate need of this. It cost about $1000.00
and they could have never gotten one, were it not for your generous donations.
The director was just overwhelmed and they presented us a program of songs and
poems to show their gratitude. I just wish you could enjoy the appreciation
they we get to receive.
There are several orphanages we work with who are in great need of toys and
as God always provides, we just got an e-mail this morning from Cory Church
and Ashley McWaters saying their congregation at Pheasant Run had just shipped
eleven boxes of toys!!! God is good.
Last month I mentioned the orphanage for the mentally slow children and how
they had invited us to their "Last Bell" program where they were going to
"show off" the music entertainment center you provided. Sadly, we ended up
being in Warsaw that day and had to miss it. We still have plans to do a
Character Counts Seminar there in the Fall.
Jay Don left at 5:00 AM Sunday to go to Feodocia to do a Character Counts
Seminar for four days. I "bowed" out of this one. It as going to be another 10
hour drive or a really "nasty" train trip. After the Warsaw adventure, I just
couldn’t "bear" it! I really needed to stay here and get a lot of house things
done that I had neglected for the past several weeks. Sunday, June 6th
was our 37th anniversary and the first time I ever remember us
being "apart" on our special day! However, on the 5th, Jay Don had
filled the house with flowers-----roses in the bedroom, lilies in the living
room and wild flowers in the kitchen and bathroom plus he took me to dinner at
Titanic where the piano man played for us the whole time------Pretty
Impressive------so I didn’t mind him leaving on the 6th!
We are looking forward to a quick trip home (Canada) in July. We will be
flying into Chicago and then Portland on the 4th. I am a bit leery
about this but strongly believe God will take care of us. We especially covet
your prayers on that day. We can’t wait to see our Hannah again and have some
time with our family. Jay Don will also perform the marriage ceremony of our
dear friend, Lara Hoff, on the 24th. We will then head back to
Ukraine all by ourselves!! My prayer is that our family can all be together
again just once during this time. It has been over three years now since we
were all together.
Rhett and Julia will fly back July 2nd to set up "house keeping"
in Vancouver, Wa. I try not to think this is the last few days we will all be
together here in Ukraine. My heart is a bit heavy when I think of them being
gone but God is good and I know He will help us through this. They can’t wait
to plant their feet on US soil!
We continually thank you for your love and support of us and our work in
Ukraine and ask you to remember us constantly with many prayers during another
transition.
With much love and gratitude,
Jay Don and Mary Lee